Pride

My fiancé often says “I am the most humble person I know”. I think that is very true in many cases with many people. Of course it is just a joke to say “yes, I know I have pride”, I know it rings true for me. Pride is one of the most horrible quilities that keeps me from getting along with others. I have learned in my life that it is what keeps me from developing strong relationships because I cannot let go of what I believe and try to see a different perspective that may be brought up.

I think this can especially be true in a marriage that is just beginning to start out. Couples will, without a doubt, not always see eye to eye and it can damage the relationship if not taken seriously. I think one of the best ways to avoid pride in really any relationship, but especially marriage, is to actively listen, with the intention of actually trying to understand where your partner is coming from and see their point of view. I think that when you are able to actively listen, you will be able to learn things or see a different perspective you hadn’t thought of before and become humbled. I think the more we humble ourselves the more we grow closer to our significant other.